My friend was in the predicament that am getting to just now, it's rather tricky situation and i would love to hear what you would do if you were in her shoes.
Her current boyfriend has been her friend for quite some time and earlier in their friendship she happened to tell him that she was a virgin which was a lie. He has never forgotten this and that was one of the reasons why he was attracted to her. Now he wants to have sex. She has given him the runaround for quite some time and if she continues to he'll suspect that something is wrong. What should she do? Bearing in mind that this is a serious relationship that is possibly leading to marriage.
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haha...as hard as it might be...the truth is her only option..don think there any way conceivable that she can get out of that..en the liver meat thing didnt go too well when it wuz tried..hehehe
Walalala, i guess she can either tell the truth or have surgery to make nini tighter (i hear its possible nowadays)
Hapo ni noma!!
But the truth should just be let out... It's only fair that the truth comes out...
its either she goes hard & refuse to sleep with him till marriage.
or count her losses and tell it as it is.
She had better look for a solution, and a quick one. I hear there is a way to retain virginity, though painful.
Dip the concerned part in warm salty water for sometimes in a Karai and wait for the results.
I wouldn't go for that though!
the truth is the only option out. even if she gets the mini-surgery, that lie will haunt her and eat her up. she'll eventually confess but it might be too late.
she should know that everything in the dark comes to light, sooner or later. she'd rather tell the truth than the boyfriend finding out from another source.
There is really no other way, its either she fakes being a virgin coz not all of them bleedfor that matter btu all of 'em have the pain or she juz comes out en tell him the truth(even him he aint a saint!) en hope that he will still love n want 2 marry her......either way, her goose is cooked!
that's a sad one and really tricky considering she doesn't want to lose him. well, the truth will set her free.....
hey a would tell him da truth if ilove him coz if he reaaly loves me he'd understand,tho it hurts,but a life ov deception is da most hard life 2 lead,if one hsa aconcise
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