Susan* has been going out with this guy for 6 months. She is planning to relocate to Dubai in a few months which her boyfriend is aware of. Before she made this decision they talked about it and he had no problem with it. They agreed that he would visit after a year. Two months ago she noticed a change in him. He is not giving her attention as he used to and they neither hang out nor go out like before. She suspects that he is seeing someone else but she can't prove it. She says that she doesn't want to break up and its really bugging her. What do you think she should do?
*not her real name



6 comments:
be more sure abt it then decide kama anataka long distance or not.
The guy is most-likely not cheating but is depressed and confussed about it and he does not want to tell her...though he can't hide it either. Susan, talk to your man, help him face the reality if your leaving coz it will be impossible for you to do it from Dubai.
long distance relationships are hard. trust me, I know. You do not want to go through that. Its better to have a new beginning when you go to Dubs. And what makes it easier is that you have only been dating for 6 months. The guy has probably already decided to move on psychologically, and does not know how to convey this to you.
I agree with rho rho, 6 months is a short time and if you're relocating it'd be easier to start over. Or better yet when you come back and you guys are still available and the sparks still there continue where you left off
#Fail (That is all I see in the future for this relationship..and I use that term very very loosely...very!)
She should break up with him, talking and resolving their issues so she can know where she stands.
Post a Comment
Note: Only a member of this blog may post a comment.